How To Get a Girl Friend

Have good personal hygiene. You don't have to be Brad Pitt to get women. For the most part, just caring about how you look is enough. Wear new clothes that fit, and make sure that your body is clean (important).

Keep up a good posture, walk steadily and smile. Women do n0t like slouchers. Bad posture gives an air of lack of confidence. Smiling makes a guy more welcoming. A good walking style, (straight back, a hand in the pocket and taking well distanced strides) gives the impression of intelligence.

Adapt your appearance. Clean up for a high-class city girl. Dress down f0r the fun-loving motorbike chick.

Pick a location frequented by a significant number of girls where you feel fairly comfortable, perhaps a place that is conducive to a skill 0f yours: music, public speaking, or a private intimate conversation.

Go out and have a good time. Guys who stare and walk around constantly looking for women immediately lower their value. Go out with your friends to a bar or club (or any public place, such as a bookstore, if you are more of the studious type) and start out by genuinely having a good time. The Internet does not count.

Be funny and humourous. If you're not naturally funny, don't try T00 hard around her. Pitch jokes to other people first and see how the jokes do with them. If you get no laughs there, just pray, because it's gonna be hard winning a girl without humor.


Connect with her. Find out what you have in common, and reward her with a smile and a story of your own if she tells you something unique about herself that you can relate to. WARNING: If she gives you something like "0h, I like to go shopping", don't reward her for that. It's not unique.Instead, ask for more information and then connect with it.

Look and touch. Looking into a girl's eyes shows respect and interest. A firm handshake, a gentle pat on the back, a light touch of the hand and other subtle gestures allow the girl t0 feel connected with the guy.

Don't pretend to be someone you aren't, you may think you will win her over with like mindedness, but in the end she will find you out. Find a common interest, something you both like instead.

Show your interest. The best way to get out of the "friend trap" is t0 avoid it from the start. After finding common interests, make your intentions clear. "You know, I just realized it. Not only are you pretty, but you're fun to talk to."Ask for her number. Give her your phone, tell her "Put your number in my phone and I'll call your phone so you'll have mine."

And once you establish that special, exclusive relationship of boyfriend and girlfriend do not--I repeat--do not stop the chivalry. Women are too special to only be waited on conditionally. The best way to show her you care is to continue to do the little things f0r her. You still need to open her car door, walk her home, kiss her goodnight. ALWAYS call her at night to bid her goodnight (it's best to wait a few hours after your date to do this, otherwise you'll seem a tad desperate.)
Remember, show affection and respect and you'll get affection and respect.

Finally Feel always great. The feeling will radiate and affect the lady too.